Shades of Doom

"Everything about you is fake. You've got no real personality, no real job and heck, you don't even have real boobs! And you wonder why you can't find a REAL man in your life?"

Usually, I would've totally agree with this statement if the girl is a total slut. But then I thought to myself : "WHY would a woman want to fake everything in her life?". I looked at it from the women's prespectives. The answer is simple enough. The reason lies in MEN themselves. They're the reason why these women kill to look good. Why they starve to death to look decent in skin-tight clothes. Why they buy all of the unreasonably high-priced beauty products just to cover up that unnoticeable, near-to-nothing pimple on their noses. Of course, guys would just tell you that girls look their best with minimum make-up. Au naturel, the most common option that the guys opt for. But if a guy loves a girl because she's naturally beautiful, why cheat on her? Why make her feel terrible of herself and strip her from her self-esteem? And this is when the fake boobs come into the picture.

These cases exist because the guys act like total jackasses. Guy and girl fall in love, then guy cheats on girl. The girl feels that she's ugly, and she feels that she needs to change herself. So that she could be more presentable. And approachable. She is at a state of desperation. And when she turns into trashy rather than classy, she's called a whore. But whose fault was it in the first place? Who made her that way? Her life is ruined because she wanted to be pretty. Because she thought that she wasn't pretty enough for the guy who cheated on her.

I'm not saying that guys are the only ones to blame. Girls cheat too, but guys do it more often. And I'm not saying that all the women who sport fake boobs are like that because men cheated on them. Sometimes, they do it because they want to. They want to be objects of affection, and it's not based on love, just for the pleasure of it. But guys, please think twice before you call these girls as whores. There might be a reason why girls like them crave for attention. Girls and women are not to be mistaken as objects. We hate the idea that we are being objectified by guys. Sometimes we feel like we can't be ourselves around them just because they don't think we're attractive enough. I know what some guys do when they're in groups. They'll eye girls on the street and rate their 'hotness'. Where will THAT get you in life, boys? If you can't accept girls as they are, then no one wants to be with you.

Girls and women who choose to be attention-seeking whores should think of how people perceive them to be. Don't ruin your own lives just because a guy cheated on you, or because you think guys are attracted at fake boobs. The don't, really. Nonetheless, guys should not objectify the female species and please accept them for who they are. Don't try to change them just because you don't like what they wear, what they look like, etc. If you try to change them, then you don't deserve them. Us girls choose to be pretty and wear what we like because we feel good in them, and NOT to steal your attention.

BE YOURSELVES :)

Pssst. It's my birthday tomorrow. Hehe.